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It Is Well…

Good morning,

Just to encourage someone this morning.

James 1:2-4 Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

1 Thessalonians 5:23 Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Psalms 121:7 The LORD will protect you from all evil; He will keep your soul. 

It Is Well by Bethel Music
Have a blessed day. 😇🙏😘


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#Profess, #Provide and #Protect

Good morning, Most people don’t really know their job description or job roles in a relationship.  A man and a woman equally must be able to PROFESS, PROVIDE AND PROTECT. Profess: to declare or admit openly or freely to someone.  Provide: to give someone something that they need. Protect: to keep safe, toprovide someone with insurance. The ability… Continue reading #Profess, #Provide and #Protect

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Good morning,


by Dag Heward-Mills 

READ: Matthew 19:1-9

19 And it came to pass that when Jesus had finished these sayings, He departed from Galilee and came into the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.

2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there

3 The Pharisees also came unto Him, testing Him and saying unto Him, “Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?”

4 And He answered and said unto them, “Have ye not read, that He that made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 and said, ‘For this cause shall a man leave father and mother and shall cleave to his wife, and the two shall be one flesh’?

6 Therefore they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”

7 They said unto Him, “Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement and to put her away?”

8 He said unto them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, suffered you to put away your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

9 And I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery; and whoso marrieth her who is put away doth commit adultery”.

God places the responsibility of cleaving on the man. He leaves and cleaves (glues) to his wife.

Genesis 2:24, Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Divorce occurs when he is not able to cleave tightly enough to become inseparable. Marriage rests on the shoulders of the man, just the same way divorce also does. 
Whatever happens in the home is the man’s responsibility, although it may not be his fault. When man fell and God came to the garden, He first called out to Adam and placed the responsibility for eating the fruit at his feet. There were no questions for the woman.
Divorce brings about many complications. God, generally, does not like broken fellowship of any sort. The concept of a broken home or broken life hurts God. An unending hurt is inflicted (Proverbs 17:14). A bitter personality is created (Proverbs 18:14). There is a permanent break up of relationship/fellowship (Proverbs 18:19).
Separation is the termination of a commitment with emotional involvement. Divorce is legalized separation. Do not make a marriage vow if you do not intend to keep it (Ecclesiastes 5:4, 5).

Be blessed and let us continue in love. 😇🙏😘


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Why Does It Hurt?

Good morning,

I believe you are all well. Didn’t feel like posting today but kept being prompted to write this.


When someone goes through a heartbreak or break up, it hurts because of the level of investments the person made while in the relationship. 

  • Investments will cost you
  • Investment is the action or process of investing for profit.
  • Investments can end up being at a great loss.

The type of relationship investments are in two categories, Physical and Emotional investment. 
1.) Physical investments are like

  • Cooking,
  • Cleaning
  • Spending time
  • Money spent
  • Giving your body
  • Buying of gifts

2.) Emotional investments

  • When you give your body, emotions are released, attached and left behind.
  • The nurturing
  • The caring.
  • Complete surrendered of feelings 
  • The love given to the person.

When you make an investment, you have to be ready for the risks that comes with it. 

The ability to understanding the risk, means you have to be able to identify your own attitude towards the relationship. By identifying the different types of risk, you can then pick up tips for minimising the chances of things going wrong.

This is why I constantly advice that try not to get carried away and do all these investments too early into the relationship. 

If you do, try and do them at small doses. Try and be sure the other party is also investing in the same quantity as you are.

The funny thing is when you do get married you won’t even practice half of what you do while courting. 

While courting an average girl is trying to show she can be a good wife, so that she will be chosen by the guy. 

Be yourself, he should be able to see those traits in you without going all out. 

Do not over invest until you are certain of the outcome of your investment. 


Psalm 147:3, He heals the broken-hearted and bandages their wounds.

I pray for every broken heart to be healed in Jesus name. I pray you will learn to love yourself and build back the confidence and self worth you posses and deserve as a child of God in Jesus name. Amen.

Have a great day! 😇🙏😘


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Know Your Man!

Good morning,

Genesis 4:1, Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.”

This topic today is G rated and specifically for married couples. Otherwise please stop reading NOW! 

My ears are filled with the rate at which married couples are not having enough sexual relations or not having none at all.

This is such an important part of marriage, that it baffles me why!

Sex is not a sin in marriage. It is beautiful.

I read this article which says……..

“God gives us very clear guidance in His Word on how we can best experience the gift of intimacy and love that He gave to us through sex. Sex was meant as wonderful experience between husband and wife to provide physical, emotional and spiritual bonding”. 

1 Corinthians 7:3-5, 

The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. …

I read that only 7.5% of married couples say that they have sex daily. And most married couples have sex 5 times a month 😳😳😳😳. 13% of married couples haven’t even had sex for 3 months. We wonder why there is a high rate of infidelity in marriages.

Why aren’t women concerned???  I have asked and found that it’s mostly because they don’t enjoy sex.

Sex can be enjoyable for women far more than men. But as a woman, you have to be ready to talk about it and do something about it.

I also read…….

“When a women is satisfied sexually, she don’t suffer from low self-esteem—four in five think their partners find them extremely sexy”.  

But unfortunately if she had changed after child birth and her husband isn’t very kind about it,

He will criticize the women’s body. “She’ll worry about how you feel about her body,” says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., sexual-health educator at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute. “She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she’s worried the husband will think she’s fat, ugly, or full of cellulite.”

This will then make her shy away from sex. 
“Another satisfied woman, is satisfied because she knows what she wants and express it. “A woman comfortable asking for what she wants is going to be orgasmic more of the time,”

* Married women have to learn to be bold and talk to their husbands about what they want and how they want it during sex.

* Kiss and cuddle longer before penetration 

* Foreplay a lot, it will help to get to know each other and loose all that shyness. It doesn’t always has to be just straight to sex.

* Learn to be comfortable naked, and if you are not, do something about it.

Regular and great sex in marriage keeps the love alive and growing. It binds you together more and more. This even extends to your children. They can feel the love between their parents. It brings happiness in a home.

Regular and great sex will relieve you of stress, being irritable, makes you feel youthful and it makes you feel good about yourself.

Decided to correct your sexual life today, speak to someone, desire to learn how to enjoy martial sex. Be bold and courageous.

I pray for any married woman with any insecurities, most especially with her body to receive healing of such thoughts in Jesus name. May God give you wisdom on how to overcome this negative feeling of low self esteem. In Jesus name. Amen 

Be blessed and continue to KNOW YOUR MAN. 😇🙏😘


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Getting Married Doesn’t Solve All Your Problems!!!

Good morning,

I was talking to a young lady recently, and as she spoke I realised her thoughts on getting married was a bit off. 

We hear statements like these all the time…

* Jack you are approaching 40 and I am still cooking for you, go and marry
* Sandra you are nearly 35 you need to have a child, go and marry.

* He looks like a God fearing man.

* Get married because he/she will boost your social, financial and career life.

* Marry this one he/she seems humble
And so on…

* I just want a beautiful wedding.

* I will be complete and happy when I get married.

* If I don’t marry now, nobody will marry me.

Why do we always think marriage will solve our problems.

Take a look at what Jesus said (the Message Bible Version)

Matthew 19:11-12,

But Jesus said, “Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn’t for everyone. 

12 Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked – or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you’re capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it.

The verse said it requires certain aptitude (not that I knew what that meant until now lol)

“Aptitude means a natural attitude to do something”.

Marriage isn’t going to stop you feeling insecure. 

Many get married to even solve their financial issues, but then marry a woman beater, who will batter you emotionally, physiologically and mentally.

Some men even marry thinking it will stop their promiscuous ways.

But this is not true because at the beginning the scripture says “Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life”. Key word mature. And at the end of the verse it also says “But if you are capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it”.

This scripture is just saying it takes the grace of God and great maturity to get married and remain married. And if you are ready to grow and learn while in the marriage, then it will be blessed and fruitful.

let us not be obsessed with what we think life should be. I know you are thinking, “she’s married, so she doesn’t understand”.

I am saying it because I am married and I have seen a lot of marriages break down because they had married for the wrong reasons. The wrong decisions in get married by marrying the wrong people or at the wrong time, will cause you more pain than happiness.

I pray you will not be forced into the wrong decision out of desperation. I pray that your time will come and it will be beautiful. If your time hasn’t come, I pray God will give you peace to overcome this time of waiting. I pray that you will have an enjoyable marriage. I pray when you do get married, you will overcome every obstacle in the mighty name of Jesus.


God bless and have a fulfilled and blessed week. 😇😂😘.


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Be Encouraged!

Good morning,

Last night I had a dream. In the dream a couple where in a shopping mall and by the time they came out they had been given a fine for three different things.

On a normal day the man would have accepted it and paid. But on this occasion, the wife was adamant in contesting the fine out of fraustaion of being in constant debt.

By the time she was done proving themselves against the fine,the cashier gave up.

When I woke up and asked the Lord what it meant. He said “this is how the devil is always trying to keep my children in the bondage of debt. Forcing them into little little debts and they accumulate. But my children don’t contest and stand against it, they just accept it”.

We must stand up against every scheme and negative plan of the enemy in our lives and not just accept the conditions we are in, because with God no bad condition is permanent.

Ephesians 6:11, Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

No Weapon by Fred Hammond

So I came across this scriptures sometime last week and as I sat up waiting on the Lord on His message for you this morning, He reminded me of this scripture and I believe it was for me personally. I hope it will bless and encourages someone too.

Psalm 27:1-14

1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; Of whom shall I be afraid?

2 When the wicked came against me To eat up my flesh, My enemies and foes, They stumbled and fell.

3 Though an army may encamp against me, My heart shall not fear; Though war may rise against me, In this I will be confident.

4 One thing I have desired of the Lord, That will I seek: That I may dwell in the house of the Lord All the days of my life, To behold the beauty of the Lord, And to inquire in His temple.

5 For in the time of trouble He shall hide me in His pavilion; In the secret place of His tabernacle He shall hide me; He shall set me high upon a rock.

6 And now my head shall be lifted up above my enemies all around me; Therefore I will offer sacrifices of joy in His tabernacle; I will sing, yes, I will sing praises to the Lord

7 Hear, O Lord, when I cry with my voice: have mercy also upon me, and answer me.

8 When thou saidst, Seek ye my face; my heart said unto thee, Thy face, Lord, will I seek. 

9 Hide not thy face far from me; put not thy servant away in anger: thou hast been my help; leave me not, neither forsake me, O God of my salvation. 

10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up. 

11 Teach me thy way, O Lord, and lead me in a plain path, because of mine enemies. 

12 Deliver me not over unto the will of mine enemies: for false witnesses are risen up against me, and such as breathe out cruelty. 

13 I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. 

14 Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the 

The Lord is my Light by Andrae Crouch

Be blessed and have a great weekend 😇🙏😘