I believe you are all well. Didn’t feel like posting today but kept being prompted to write this.
WHY DOES IT HURT?
When someone goes through a heartbreak or break up, it hurts because of the level of investments the person made while in the relationship.
- Investments will cost you
- Investment is the action or process of investing for profit.
- Investments can end up being at a great loss.
The type of relationship investments are in two categories, Physical and Emotional investment.
1.) Physical investments are like
- Spending time
- Money spent
- Giving your body
- Buying of gifts
2.) Emotional investments
- When you give your body, emotions are released, attached and left behind.
- The nurturing
- The caring.
- Complete surrendered of feelings
- The love given to the person.
When you make an investment, you have to be ready for the risks that comes with it.
The ability to understanding the risk, means you have to be able to identify your own attitude towards the relationship. By identifying the different types of risk, you can then pick up tips for minimising the chances of things going wrong.
This is why I constantly advice that try not to get carried away and do all these investments too early into the relationship.
If you do, try and do them at small doses. Try and be sure the other party is also investing in the same quantity as you are.
The funny thing is when you do get married you won’t even practice half of what you do while courting.
While courting an average girl is trying to show she can be a good wife, so that she will be chosen by the guy.
Be yourself, he should be able to see those traits in you without going all out.
Do not over invest until you are certain of the outcome of your investment.
“LOVE IS A GREAT AND COSTLY INVESTMENT AND A GREAT RISK TO TAKE”.
Psalm 147:3, He heals the broken-hearted and bandages their wounds.
I pray for every broken heart to be healed in Jesus name. I pray you will learn to love yourself and build back the confidence and self worth you posses and deserve as a child of God in Jesus name. Amen.
Have a great day! 😇🙏😘