Genesis 4:1, Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.”
This topic today is G rated and specifically for married couples. Otherwise please stop reading NOW!
My ears are filled with the rate at which married couples are not having enough sexual relations or not having none at all.
This is such an important part of marriage, that it baffles me why!
Sex is not a sin in marriage. It is beautiful.
I read this article which says……..
“God gives us very clear guidance in His Word on how we can best experience the gift of intimacy and love that He gave to us through sex. Sex was meant as wonderful experience between husband and wife to provide physical, emotional and spiritual bonding”.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5,
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. …
I read that only 7.5% of married couples say that they have sex daily. And most married couples have sex 5 times a month 😳😳😳😳. 13% of married couples haven’t even had sex for 3 months. We wonder why there is a high rate of infidelity in marriages.
Why aren’t women concerned??? I have asked and found that it’s mostly because they don’t enjoy sex.
Sex can be enjoyable for women far more than men. But as a woman, you have to be ready to talk about it and do something about it.
I also read…….
“When a women is satisfied sexually, she don’t suffer from low self-esteem—four in five think their partners find them extremely sexy”.
But unfortunately if she had changed after child birth and her husband isn’t very kind about it,
He will criticize the women’s body. “She’ll worry about how you feel about her body,” says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., sexual-health educator at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute. “She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she’s worried the husband will think she’s fat, ugly, or full of cellulite.”
This will then make her shy away from sex.
“Another satisfied woman, is satisfied because she knows what she wants and express it. “A woman comfortable asking for what she wants is going to be orgasmic more of the time,”
* Married women have to learn to be bold and talk to their husbands about what they want and how they want it during sex.
* Kiss and cuddle longer before penetration
* Foreplay a lot, it will help to get to know each other and loose all that shyness. It doesn’t always has to be just straight to sex.
* Learn to be comfortable naked, and if you are not, do something about it.
Regular and great sex in marriage keeps the love alive and growing. It binds you together more and more. This even extends to your children. They can feel the love between their parents. It brings happiness in a home.
Regular and great sex will relieve you of stress, being irritable, makes you feel youthful and it makes you feel good about yourself.
I pray for any married woman with any insecurities, most especially with her body to receive healing of such thoughts in Jesus name. May God give you wisdom on how to overcome this negative feeling of low self esteem. In Jesus name. Amen
Be blessed and continue to KNOW YOUR MAN. 😇🙏😘