Have you ever heard this statement before
“Girls like boys faaaaaar more than boys like girls“. By BDHM
So during a meeting recently my husband/pastor brought it up and the revelation he gave to justify this was amazing. So I though to share.
Remember this scripture when God said…
Genesis 3:16, Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
When God was distributing the punishments for our disobedience, one of the curses the for women was that “thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee”.
So when you see that no matter how bitter, angry a woman is towards her husband or no matter what he has done to her, when you ask her, she will still tell you she loves him.
No matter how controlling the man is or how much she wants to leave, she just can’t understand why she still loves him.
THIS PART IS VERY IMPORTANT.
“Then he added that it means that women do not have a choice than to love the man. But men do have a choice in deciding wherther or not to love a woman.”
You can be married to and man and he doesn’t love you but just decided to be with you.
These are partly reason why you find a man been able to say he loves two women at a time. He can make the choice.
Scripture also tells us that God’s desire is that a man should love his wife and in doing so his prayers will be answered. There are so many scriptures to back it up, here are a few we know…
Colossians 3:19, Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.
1 Peter 3:7, ikewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
The way to mitigate this curse is to be blessed to have a spirit filled man, then he will love you just as much as you love him and also only you.
Pray that the love of God will fill your husband or husband to be’s heart so that he will love you truthfully.
Pray that he is a man that loves the lord then he will love you
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,
HE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE IN DECIDEING TO LOVE YOU.
So if you have heard that saying before, just like me it finally makes sense.
Be blessed and have a great week 😇🙏😊