Like Seriously. Let’s just pause for a minute!☝️
Did anyone ever find themselves playing the wifey role before being married to the man. I know I did once, but not like what am about to share.
So I came across a young lady recently and I wasn’t impressed at all, and from my side of things, the relationship is certainly not going to end well. She’s going to be so heart broken.
So this is a little of what happened.
She goes to the guys house, cleans and cooks while he’s out. And I mean he leaves the house in such a state. She goes and does the grocery shopping then do his heaped load of laundry. Then when he does come home, he doesn’t even give her the shopping money back or even taxi fare home nor show much gratitude.
He always has an excuse for not coming to meet her parents or to take her out or even gifts on her birthdays.
First of all babying the man isn’t going to secure your place in his heart or the golden ticket in becoming Mrs Doe.
As she spoke, I was freaking out. Then she asked, ISN’T THAT WHAT WE ARE SUPPOSED TO DO???
Yes but when he marries you. Before then, you can show a little on how domestic you can be but save the rest for the marriage.
You are going to be the same person complaining that he doesn’t appreciate you, taking for granted when he marries you. Well sweetheart that is because you have already started off with him on the wrong note
Proverbs 25:2, It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter
In this sense, IT IS THE GLORY OF A WOMAN TO CONCEAL A THING BUT THE HONOUR OF HER KING TO BE TO SEARCH FOR IT.
I remember the ex before my husband I used to go to his mums on my holidays first thing after I’d woken up, helped with the chores and all sort. It still wasn’t good enough for his arrogant and self-centred self. It didn’t make him less arrogant and controlling. Instead I was nearly sinking in too deep. Thank God my eyes opened to that one quickly. 🙏
That was actually my first time playing that role while in a relationship. But I quickly learnt it wasn’t the way forward.
Pride yourself ladies and don’t sell yourself cheap. It doesn’t guarantee him to PUT A RING ON IT. You might just be on of his weekly attendees, Mandy Monday or Theresa Tuesday. Lol.
Matthew 10:16, Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
Be blessed as you remain wise. 😇🙏😊👌