A good afternoon to you,
So this morning I forgot to save my post as I realised the time and had to quickly jump into the shower to get ready for work 🙈😳😞. Had an early start.
As you know I write as I feel when I wake up and post in the morning. So I thought it had all gone and I didn’t want to start again, it won’t feel the same.
But yaaaaay 💃💃💃💃 I found it.
Here it goes!
Every day I wonder what kind of Followers of Christ we are??? I know we all get upset sometimes and we have valid reasons to be upset.
But you see the moment you call yourself a Believer and Follower of Christ, you must try to stop and think.
It saddens me when some women, when it comes to issues are quick to say “let me sort her out”, “let me tell her about herself”.
We all feel like that most of the time, I know that I do a whole lot. A lot of people step on my toes on the daily basis, but I’m sure that’s the same way I’ve probably stepped on theirs. Unlike me most people don’t have the guts to say you’ve upset me.
Why do we find it easier to forgive our husbands, family members. Is it because we know we don’t have to see the person ever again.
If you haven’t got the guts to say, we will never solve the problem, and that makes us as bad as an unbeliever.
Jeremiah 17:9, The heart (unsaved spirit) is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?
The point is, yes you can’t stand someone, but that doesn’t mean you can’t talk to them about it. There is no shame, and l mean absolutely no shame in talking about it. Instead we tell the whole world but them, which results into gossiping and backbiting.
Look at what happened to Miriam and Aaron for talking about Moses.
Numbers 1:1-2, 12 And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman. And they said, Hath the Lord indeed spoken only by Moses? hath he not spoken also by us? And the Lord heard it.
Numbers 1:9-10, 9 And the anger of the Lord was kindled against them; and he departed. And the cloud departed from off the tabernacle; and, behold, Miriam became leprous, white as snow: and Aaron looked upon Miriam, and, behold, she was leprous.
Be careful who you talk about,you don’t know maybe that is why you are not moving on in life. Because genuinely they meant you no harm.
I want you to realise as a believer, you have to check yourself on every decision you make and how you are arrogant and prideful towards people. I in particular don’t have time for grudges, only if the person is not ready to make amends with me. You’re there in your house being upset I’ve moved on and happy in life.
It’s not hard to love people it’s not hard to forgive, it is not hard to move on. Why is it so easy to stay in that state of upset?
Just because you’re not talking to the person, doesn’t pay their bills or remove anything from them. Talking about them behind their backs doesn’t give you the upper hand, instead you are far beneath them.
I pray God to help us, and if you are reading this and you know you have any grudges against anyone, feel free to address it. You’d be surprised they meant no harm. Let’s try and leave arrogance and pride aside and put God first.
Joshua 1:9, Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.
I can’t stress that enough it is important for your salvation for yourself or your spirit and mostly imperative and paramount to you making it to heaven. Let today be the last time you wake up with bitterness and an unforgiving heart. Please forgive the person, address the issue.
And if you don’t want to talk to them anymore, at least address it and let each party know that it is all forgiven, then go your separate ways. You’ll never know how you can be of use to people in life, you’ll never know where your children will meet one day.
“Your works will proceed you”
Let’s be wise and be better believers in life, our behaviour as believers is too full of unrighteousness.
I have also decided to stop blogging during the weekends. I might, if I really have something important to talk about, but I will stick to weekdays till further notice.
Be blessed and God keep you till we meet again.
Yours in the lord ❤️🙏😇,