I know this will be seemed as an old fashion one, but believing in no sex before marriage is not old fashion, it is an institution God has put in place.
Hebrews 13:4, Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
When I gave my life to Christ one of the types of thoughts that came into my head as I sought Gods face in changing this vessel, was praying about anybody I had sexual relationships with.
I heard a preaching once about how sex is a spiritual thing. So as I pondered I remember God asking me to pray and loose myself from anyone I had any form of sexual relations with in other to set myself free from them in the spiritual sense.
You see what you don’t understand or maybe some of you might know is that when ever you have a sexual relation with someone, you’ve entered into a spiritually agreement.
Remember there is blood shed mostly on your first time specifically when your hymen is broken. But it is still going on after that first time, because…
“During sexual arousal and intercourse, the amount of fluid in the vagina increases due to engorgement of blood vessels surrounding the vagina. This engorgement of blood vessels increases the volume of transudate from the vaginal walls”.
The semen comprises of so many things, like vitamin C which we all know but it also includes blood group antigens.
You don’t even know what the spiritual components of the person that you have been carrying is, or are yet to carry. So when a believer or unbeliever engages in sex out of wedlock, you invite evil spirits into your life, so the more sexual partners you have, the more evil spirits you are attracting.
What to do (Spiritual Exercise)
1.) List all their names
2.) Pray for forgiveness
3.) Loose yourself from them one by one
4.) Believe and have faith that you’re free
5.) Thank God for his mercies…and so on…
2 Corinthians 5:17, Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new
John 8:36, 36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
If??? because you must put these things in place to be set free, not just because it says so in scripture, they are physical things to do in order to allow Jesus Christ to have the authority to set you free.
Not doing so
1.) Invite of demons and spirits into your marriage.
2.) Comparing and not being satisfied in marriage.
3.) Unfruitfulness in so many areas of marriage.
4.) Spiritual bondage.
5.) Cause of other sexual immoralities… and so on…
Titus 2:11-14, For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world; Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ; Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.